"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to grab her attention again.!?

David muñoz

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Don Juanes...

Here is the thing, a few months ago i had a date with a beautiful girl, at first it was good but after days she stop to text me, she had a strange behavior, she flaked on me with a new date so I messed it up and start text her a lot, show her my feelings, even buy her flowers & one bracelet. Guess what... she didn't answer me.

I know I was wrong but it doesn't matter to me. By the time I cut off the communication with her 2 weeks ago.

So I need your help, what do I supposed to do with her?
Do I text her again?
Why should I text ?

I can't see her in person because of my lack of time...

So it's up to you

Thank u.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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David muñoz

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You're right, I know my mistake, I only know if there's a way to amend it. I'll read what u give me in the link, thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ohrein

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There is approximately a 0.01% chance of you scoring that chick now that you've been excessively interested AND she's no longer replying. You'll be lucky if she doesn't call the cops in preparation for you stalking her.
 

Billtx49

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You pursued and gifted her when she backed off after one date. Go NC starting now and go after other girls. Maybe she comes back, maybe she doesn’t. You came off appearing needy with this one and she’s not in the charity business.
 
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devilkingx2

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when she stops responding there is a 0% chance of it working out
 
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