"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to get women in college

Grapejuice69

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Simple. First of all. STOP Fapping. Seriously you only have these college years for a short time, Dont waste it. Second, If YOU MUST FAP, ONLY watch POV porn. And think of sceneroies of you intertwining with a girl, Maya Bijou is my fav. That got me out of all my weird cuck fantasies and stuff. Second, Lift, and just be confident. Simply approaching a girl and saying, "Hey I gotta get somewhere rn, But I just wanted to say your really cute, We should hang out sometime and open a bottle of grapejuice ;)'' Be funny. But if you lift and dont fap, Just grind with a chick at any party and when she feels your erection youll be set. I used to grind with so many girls just to grind, I just wanted to do it to say I did it, I didn't even want to LOL. I wasn't turned on and my **** was soft, and they would leave after a couple minutes... U gotta ENJOY IT, Love it, Trust me, Feeling an attractive body rub against you and you grinding back, that little touch is better than when your full on fapping to stupid pixels on your PC. NOW IMAGINE REAL SEX. fogetabout it fam
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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devilkingx2

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if you cant dance without grinding, you cant dance. most guys look awful trying to grind. its supposed to be something very subtle and sensual if you know what youre doing.

if you cant dance for real you better get yourself in a good club and take notes
If you can't dance the key is to only dance in the dark and draw as little attention to yourself as possible. Nobody will pay super close attention otherwise
 

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I don’t believe anyone is incapable of learning how to dance. You don’t need to have (the very overrated) rhythm of a salsa dancer to be good. A simple 2 step and some waist movement will get you very far.

It’s like anything else, anyone that really wants to become a good dancer will be one. I just think most people aren’t dancing to the right music when it comes to women
Oh i didn't mean that they should never ever learn, just that they should avoid the spotlight if they gotta learn soon, learning to dance isn't something one does overnight, but i wouldn't say avoid clubs for weeks/months til you've religiously studied and replicated every popular rap song's video (or whatever the kids are doing these days)
 

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Hell yeah. Ima use it
Oh i didn't mean that they should never ever learn, just that they should avoid the spotlight if they gotta learn soon, learning to dance isn't something one does overnight, but i wouldn't say avoid clubs for weeks/months til you've religiously studied and replicated every popular rap song's video (or whatever the kids are doing these days)
Or? You can just go with the flow and move your shoulders and hips and **** to the flow. Look at this . This taught me to dance because they are my idols in a way

 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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