"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how to get this HB10

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well im in college and there is this girl in one class, she is perfect, like if i have her then i wont look for other girl, this is the girl of my dreams...

So i have been trying to talk to her and never made it until last class and we talked a bit she was very nice with me, but i was all nervous and **** but still i tried to maintain cool

i said you better do this , i dont care if she rejects me i just have to try cuz she is the girl of my dreams

so how can i stop being nervous, its like the first perfect 10 i got the guts to go and talk to her

how can i ask her out?

the problem is that i have a gf and we have been 5 months and i really like her, but yo' this is the girl of my dreams and i got to have her, and no, i wont break up unless i get the girl of my class
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Charm

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this is the girl of my dreams
You dont even know what her values are, what her behavior outside of class is like, what you and her have in common, etc. What specifically do you know about her that makes her the girl of your dreams? Look at the way your talking about her as if you were at the very end of your life. Is this one girl really the girl of your dreams or just someone you find very physically attractive and want to get to know better?
 

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Gauge her interest through kino and eye contact. Don't just drop a weird awkward line out there like "You wanna go out?". After you've established some sort of rapport. Then throw her some bait like "Some friends and I are gonna go out this weekend to a party/fundraiser/club, do you want to come?" If she says yes then tell her you'll give her a call in a few days and get her number. Don't call her that weekend, tell her you forgot, then take her out next week by herself. Bling, bling..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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