"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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well im in college and there is this girl in one class, she is perfect, like if i have her then i wont look for other girl, this is the girl of my dreams...

So i have been trying to talk to her and never made it until last class and we talked a bit she was very nice with me, but i was all nervous and **** but still i tried to maintain cool

i said you better do this , i dont care if she rejects me i just have to try cuz she is the girl of my dreams

so how can i stop being nervous, its like the first perfect 10 i got the guts to go and talk to her

how can i ask her out?

the problem is that i have a gf and we have been 5 months and i really like her, but yo' this is the girl of my dreams and i got to have her, and no, i wont break up unless i get the girl of my class
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You dont even know what her values are, what her behavior outside of class is like, what you and her have in common, etc. What specifically do you know about her that makes her the girl of your dreams? Look at the way your talking about her as if you were at the very end of your life. Is this one girl really the girl of your dreams or just someone you find very physically attractive and want to get to know better?
 
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Gauge her interest through kino and eye contact. Don't just drop a weird awkward line out there like "You wanna go out?". After you've established some sort of rapport. Then throw her some bait like "Some friends and I are gonna go out this weekend to a party/fundraiser/club, do you want to come?" If she says yes then tell her you'll give her a call in a few days and get her number. Don't call her that weekend, tell her you forgot, then take her out next week by herself. Bling, bling..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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