"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well im in college and there is this girl in one class, she is perfect, like if i have her then i wont look for other girl, this is the girl of my dreams...

So i have been trying to talk to her and never made it until last class and we talked a bit she was very nice with me, but i was all nervous and **** but still i tried to maintain cool

i said you better do this , i dont care if she rejects me i just have to try cuz she is the girl of my dreams

so how can i stop being nervous, its like the first perfect 10 i got the guts to go and talk to her

how can i ask her out?

the problem is that i have a gf and we have been 5 months and i really like her, but yo' this is the girl of my dreams and i got to have her, and no, i wont break up unless i get the girl of my class
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Charm

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this is the girl of my dreams
You dont even know what her values are, what her behavior outside of class is like, what you and her have in common, etc. What specifically do you know about her that makes her the girl of your dreams? Look at the way your talking about her as if you were at the very end of your life. Is this one girl really the girl of your dreams or just someone you find very physically attractive and want to get to know better?
 

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Gauge her interest through kino and eye contact. Don't just drop a weird awkward line out there like "You wanna go out?". After you've established some sort of rapport. Then throw her some bait like "Some friends and I are gonna go out this weekend to a party/fundraiser/club, do you want to come?" If she says yes then tell her you'll give her a call in a few days and get her number. Don't call her that weekend, tell her you forgot, then take her out next week by herself. Bling, bling..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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