"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well im in college and there is this girl in one class, she is perfect, like if i have her then i wont look for other girl, this is the girl of my dreams...

So i have been trying to talk to her and never made it until last class and we talked a bit she was very nice with me, but i was all nervous and **** but still i tried to maintain cool

i said you better do this , i dont care if she rejects me i just have to try cuz she is the girl of my dreams

so how can i stop being nervous, its like the first perfect 10 i got the guts to go and talk to her

how can i ask her out?

the problem is that i have a gf and we have been 5 months and i really like her, but yo' this is the girl of my dreams and i got to have her, and no, i wont break up unless i get the girl of my class
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You dont even know what her values are, what her behavior outside of class is like, what you and her have in common, etc. What specifically do you know about her that makes her the girl of your dreams? Look at the way your talking about her as if you were at the very end of your life. Is this one girl really the girl of your dreams or just someone you find very physically attractive and want to get to know better?
 
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Gauge her interest through kino and eye contact. Don't just drop a weird awkward line out there like "You wanna go out?". After you've established some sort of rapport. Then throw her some bait like "Some friends and I are gonna go out this weekend to a party/fundraiser/club, do you want to come?" If she says yes then tell her you'll give her a call in a few days and get her number. Don't call her that weekend, tell her you forgot, then take her out next week by herself. Bling, bling..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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