"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how to get past "i have a boyfriend"

dannowillbookem

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this line always shuts me down and its hard to move on...anyone know any good lines/ways of getting past this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"I've only known you 5 minutes, and already you're telling me about your problems? (laughter, hot sex later)"
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Toughie.
 

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I've only known you 5 minutes, and already you're telling me about your problems?

haha, I like that one!

I usually respond with...'that's nice and all, but i'm not into guys, sorry. So what's your email address again?'
 

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I would say move on. I think its wrong to fvck with someone's life and relationship just cause you wanna get some. Of course if she goes for it, then the guy has bigger problems to worry about, but if I were you I'd stay out of it. You never know if the guy she is with is an ex-Marine or someone who is vengeful and make it their lifes purpose to fvck you up and make trouble for you.

I wouldn't risk it unless I was sure there was something between me and the girl, and that I wanted a long term relationship. Otherwise, its not worth the hassle.

And as I've said I think its wrong especially if she is happy in her relationship cause then you really are doing 2 people a major disservice, you are screwing up her boyfriends life and if your plan is only to get some from her and leave her then you are also messing up a more meaningful relationship for her. People who do that are low life scumbags.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dannowillbookem

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no no no i mean like chicks will use it (i can recall it only happening to me once to my knowledge, although of course idk) even if they dont have a bf...lol i like those lines.
 

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
no no no i mean like chicks will use it (i can recall it only happening to me once to my knowledge, although of course idk) even if they dont have a bf...lol i like those lines.
Well in that case she just isn't into you at all, and you should move on then too.
 

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You know that the likeliness is that they wil never marry so just use one of the above lines or better et something that you have. If they brake up because of you you are doing the guy a service by breaking him u with a *****. and you are just speeding up his chances to meet someone better then that cheating *****.
 

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You know that the likeliness is that they wil never marry so just use one of the above lines or better et something that you have. If they brake up because of you you are doing the guy a service by breaking him u with a *****. and you are just speeding up his chances to meet someone better then that cheating *****.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
well the point of these forums is how to get chicks into you
True, however, that line shows complete uninterest. When a girl is obviously completely uninterested it generally is not worth it to pursue her because it's likely she'll never be interested, and if there's even a shot, it's a long one.
 

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The point of these forums is to help bring AFC's back to reality and get them back on track with their lives.


I understand you're probably interested in her now even though she has a boyfriend, but listen man, would you want some other guy trying to woo away your gf while you weren't around? Didn't think so. NEXT
 

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Originally posted by Jerky Boi
The point of these forums is to help bring AFC's back to reality and get them back on track with their lives.


I understand you're probably interested in her now even though she has a boyfriend, but listen man, would you want some other guy trying to woo away your gf while you weren't around? Didn't think so. NEXT
okay okay whatever
 
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