dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
this line always shuts me down and its hard to move on...anyone know any good lines/ways of getting past this?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
how to get past "i have a boyfriend"
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PrimetimeDeliverance
Don Juan
uh, grab your balls and find someone else? Us guys who have these girlfriends dont want you hangin around.
biker_gixxer
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I've only known you 5 minutes, and already you're telling me about your problems?
haha, I like that one!
I usually respond with...'that's nice and all, but i'm not into guys, sorry. So what's your email address again?'
haha, I like that one!
I usually respond with...'that's nice and all, but i'm not into guys, sorry. So what's your email address again?'
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
I would say move on. I think its wrong to fvck with someone's life and relationship just cause you wanna get some. Of course if she goes for it, then the guy has bigger problems to worry about, but if I were you I'd stay out of it. You never know if the guy she is with is an ex-Marine or someone who is vengeful and make it their lifes purpose to fvck you up and make trouble for you.
I wouldn't risk it unless I was sure there was something between me and the girl, and that I wanted a long term relationship. Otherwise, its not worth the hassle.
And as I've said I think its wrong especially if she is happy in her relationship cause then you really are doing 2 people a major disservice, you are screwing up her boyfriends life and if your plan is only to get some from her and leave her then you are also messing up a more meaningful relationship for her. People who do that are low life scumbags.
I wouldn't risk it unless I was sure there was something between me and the girl, and that I wanted a long term relationship. Otherwise, its not worth the hassle.
And as I've said I think its wrong especially if she is happy in her relationship cause then you really are doing 2 people a major disservice, you are screwing up her boyfriends life and if your plan is only to get some from her and leave her then you are also messing up a more meaningful relationship for her. People who do that are low life scumbags.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
no no no i mean like chicks will use it (i can recall it only happening to me once to my knowledge, although of course idk) even if they dont have a bf...lol i like those lines.
familyguyfan
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Well in that case she just isn't into you at all, and you should move on then too.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
well the point of these forums is how to get chicks into you
You know that the likeliness is that they wil never marry so just use one of the above lines or better et something that you have. If they brake up because of you you are doing the guy a service by breaking him u with a *****. and you are just speeding up his chances to meet someone better then that cheating *****.
You know that the likeliness is that they wil never marry so just use one of the above lines or better et something that you have. If they brake up because of you you are doing the guy a service by breaking him u with a *****. and you are just speeding up his chances to meet someone better then that cheating *****.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
familyguyfan
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True, however, that line shows complete uninterest. When a girl is obviously completely uninterested it generally is not worth it to pursue her because it's likely she'll never be interested, and if there's even a shot, it's a long one.
The point of these forums is to help bring AFC's back to reality and get them back on track with their lives.
I understand you're probably interested in her now even though she has a boyfriend, but listen man, would you want some other guy trying to woo away your gf while you weren't around? Didn't think so. NEXT
I understand you're probably interested in her now even though she has a boyfriend, but listen man, would you want some other guy trying to woo away your gf while you weren't around? Didn't think so. NEXT
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
okay okay whatever
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
nice lol