dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
this line always shuts me down and its hard to move on...anyone know any good lines/ways of getting past this?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
how to get past "i have a boyfriend"
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PrimetimeDeliverance
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uh, grab your balls and find someone else? Us guys who have these girlfriends dont want you hangin around.
biker_gixxer
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I've only known you 5 minutes, and already you're telling me about your problems?
haha, I like that one!
I usually respond with...'that's nice and all, but i'm not into guys, sorry. So what's your email address again?'
haha, I like that one!
I usually respond with...'that's nice and all, but i'm not into guys, sorry. So what's your email address again?'
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
I would say move on. I think its wrong to fvck with someone's life and relationship just cause you wanna get some. Of course if she goes for it, then the guy has bigger problems to worry about, but if I were you I'd stay out of it. You never know if the guy she is with is an ex-Marine or someone who is vengeful and make it their lifes purpose to fvck you up and make trouble for you.
I wouldn't risk it unless I was sure there was something between me and the girl, and that I wanted a long term relationship. Otherwise, its not worth the hassle.
And as I've said I think its wrong especially if she is happy in her relationship cause then you really are doing 2 people a major disservice, you are screwing up her boyfriends life and if your plan is only to get some from her and leave her then you are also messing up a more meaningful relationship for her. People who do that are low life scumbags.
I wouldn't risk it unless I was sure there was something between me and the girl, and that I wanted a long term relationship. Otherwise, its not worth the hassle.
And as I've said I think its wrong especially if she is happy in her relationship cause then you really are doing 2 people a major disservice, you are screwing up her boyfriends life and if your plan is only to get some from her and leave her then you are also messing up a more meaningful relationship for her. People who do that are low life scumbags.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
no no no i mean like chicks will use it (i can recall it only happening to me once to my knowledge, although of course idk) even if they dont have a bf...lol i like those lines.
familyguyfan
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Well in that case she just isn't into you at all, and you should move on then too.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
well the point of these forums is how to get chicks into you
You know that the likeliness is that they wil never marry so just use one of the above lines or better et something that you have. If they brake up because of you you are doing the guy a service by breaking him u with a *****. and you are just speeding up his chances to meet someone better then that cheating *****.
You know that the likeliness is that they wil never marry so just use one of the above lines or better et something that you have. If they brake up because of you you are doing the guy a service by breaking him u with a *****. and you are just speeding up his chances to meet someone better then that cheating *****.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
familyguyfan
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True, however, that line shows complete uninterest. When a girl is obviously completely uninterested it generally is not worth it to pursue her because it's likely she'll never be interested, and if there's even a shot, it's a long one.
The point of these forums is to help bring AFC's back to reality and get them back on track with their lives.
I understand you're probably interested in her now even though she has a boyfriend, but listen man, would you want some other guy trying to woo away your gf while you weren't around? Didn't think so. NEXT
I understand you're probably interested in her now even though she has a boyfriend, but listen man, would you want some other guy trying to woo away your gf while you weren't around? Didn't think so. NEXT
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
okay okay whatever
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
nice lol