dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
this line always shuts me down and its hard to move on...anyone know any good lines/ways of getting past this?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
how to get past "i have a boyfriend"
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PrimetimeDeliverance
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uh, grab your balls and find someone else? Us guys who have these girlfriends dont want you hangin around.
biker_gixxer
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I've only known you 5 minutes, and already you're telling me about your problems?
haha, I like that one!
I usually respond with...'that's nice and all, but i'm not into guys, sorry. So what's your email address again?'
haha, I like that one!
I usually respond with...'that's nice and all, but i'm not into guys, sorry. So what's your email address again?'
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
I would say move on. I think its wrong to fvck with someone's life and relationship just cause you wanna get some. Of course if she goes for it, then the guy has bigger problems to worry about, but if I were you I'd stay out of it. You never know if the guy she is with is an ex-Marine or someone who is vengeful and make it their lifes purpose to fvck you up and make trouble for you.
I wouldn't risk it unless I was sure there was something between me and the girl, and that I wanted a long term relationship. Otherwise, its not worth the hassle.
And as I've said I think its wrong especially if she is happy in her relationship cause then you really are doing 2 people a major disservice, you are screwing up her boyfriends life and if your plan is only to get some from her and leave her then you are also messing up a more meaningful relationship for her. People who do that are low life scumbags.
I wouldn't risk it unless I was sure there was something between me and the girl, and that I wanted a long term relationship. Otherwise, its not worth the hassle.
And as I've said I think its wrong especially if she is happy in her relationship cause then you really are doing 2 people a major disservice, you are screwing up her boyfriends life and if your plan is only to get some from her and leave her then you are also messing up a more meaningful relationship for her. People who do that are low life scumbags.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
no no no i mean like chicks will use it (i can recall it only happening to me once to my knowledge, although of course idk) even if they dont have a bf...lol i like those lines.
familyguyfan
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Well in that case she just isn't into you at all, and you should move on then too.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
well the point of these forums is how to get chicks into you
You know that the likeliness is that they wil never marry so just use one of the above lines or better et something that you have. If they brake up because of you you are doing the guy a service by breaking him u with a *****. and you are just speeding up his chances to meet someone better then that cheating *****.
You know that the likeliness is that they wil never marry so just use one of the above lines or better et something that you have. If they brake up because of you you are doing the guy a service by breaking him u with a *****. and you are just speeding up his chances to meet someone better then that cheating *****.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
familyguyfan
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True, however, that line shows complete uninterest. When a girl is obviously completely uninterested it generally is not worth it to pursue her because it's likely she'll never be interested, and if there's even a shot, it's a long one.
The point of these forums is to help bring AFC's back to reality and get them back on track with their lives.
I understand you're probably interested in her now even though she has a boyfriend, but listen man, would you want some other guy trying to woo away your gf while you weren't around? Didn't think so. NEXT
I understand you're probably interested in her now even though she has a boyfriend, but listen man, would you want some other guy trying to woo away your gf while you weren't around? Didn't think so. NEXT
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
okay okay whatever
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
nice lol