Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your neck should be pretty muscular as is, because you're constantly shaking your head when you get shut down by 100's of gross broads.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Very good question! I wish I knew a good exercise for the neck.
Without a good deal of resistance, I guess you are talking about the cardio for the neckOriginally posted by wheelin&dealin
Your neck should be pretty muscular as is, because you're constantly shaking your head when you get shut down by 100's of gross broads.
Which can only make it thinner.Thats not true at all, cardio does build muscles, i only od cardio on my legs, no weight training, and i have substantial muscle from the cardio. Obviously if you want to be huge then you need large weights but you can build ample amounts of muscle with cardio.Originally posted by al77
Without a good deal of resistance, I guess you are talking about the cardio for the neck
Don't go for the gross broads...
With regards to neck cardio... I found that banging my head against a wall in intervals of 30 bangs on, 30 off has worked best for me.Originally posted by al77
Without a good deal of resistance, I guess you are talking about the cardio for the neck
Don't go for the gross broads...
Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Your neck should be pretty muscular as is, because you're constantly shaking your head when you get shut down by 100's of gross broads.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.