She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your neck should be pretty muscular as is, because you're constantly shaking your head when you get shut down by 100's of gross broads.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Very good question! I wish I knew a good exercise for the neck.
Without a good deal of resistance, I guess you are talking about the cardio for the neckOriginally posted by wheelin&dealin
Your neck should be pretty muscular as is, because you're constantly shaking your head when you get shut down by 100's of gross broads.
Which can only make it thinner.Thats not true at all, cardio does build muscles, i only od cardio on my legs, no weight training, and i have substantial muscle from the cardio. Obviously if you want to be huge then you need large weights but you can build ample amounts of muscle with cardio.Originally posted by al77
Without a good deal of resistance, I guess you are talking about the cardio for the neck
Don't go for the gross broads...
With regards to neck cardio... I found that banging my head against a wall in intervals of 30 bangs on, 30 off has worked best for me.Originally posted by al77
Without a good deal of resistance, I guess you are talking about the cardio for the neck
Don't go for the gross broads...
Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Your neck should be pretty muscular as is, because you're constantly shaking your head when you get shut down by 100's of gross broads.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.