I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your neck should be pretty muscular as is, because you're constantly shaking your head when you get shut down by 100's of gross broads.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Very good question! I wish I knew a good exercise for the neck.
Without a good deal of resistance, I guess you are talking about the cardio for the neckOriginally posted by wheelin&dealin
Your neck should be pretty muscular as is, because you're constantly shaking your head when you get shut down by 100's of gross broads.
Which can only make it thinner.Thats not true at all, cardio does build muscles, i only od cardio on my legs, no weight training, and i have substantial muscle from the cardio. Obviously if you want to be huge then you need large weights but you can build ample amounts of muscle with cardio.Originally posted by al77
Without a good deal of resistance, I guess you are talking about the cardio for the neck
Don't go for the gross broads...
With regards to neck cardio... I found that banging my head against a wall in intervals of 30 bangs on, 30 off has worked best for me.Originally posted by al77
Without a good deal of resistance, I guess you are talking about the cardio for the neck
Don't go for the gross broads...
Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Your neck should be pretty muscular as is, because you're constantly shaking your head when you get shut down by 100's of gross broads.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.