I have a girl that likes me I want her to come over to my place so we can make out or what not, but I know I can't just tell her that straight up. So do u guys have any suggestions on what to tell to girls so they would be open to coming over?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How to get a girl to come over?
- Thread starter DimaDrill
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tao of Steve
Don Juan
while you are talking to her, casually say (dont ask) 'lets go get something to eat at my place'
say it like its the most casual and natural thing to do, not like u r asking her out on a date. pre suppose she wants to do it.
say it like its the most casual and natural thing to do, not like u r asking her out on a date. pre suppose she wants to do it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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HAHAHA!Originally posted by Tao of Steve
while you are talking to her, casually say (dont ask) 'lets go get something to eat at my place'
say it like its the most casual and natural thing to do, not like u r asking her out on a date. pre suppose she wants to do it.
that's awesome..
you are such a manipulater tao of steve..
i like it ..
Austin Allegro
Master Don Juan
In the early stages most women will need some form of ASD to come over to your place. I usually find it works well to say you've thought of a film she'd really like, and you've managed to get the DVD, so why not come over and watch it. Usually works for me.
If your talkn to her on the phone say "Come over and we'll hang out here tonight"
If your out with her say "Let's just go to my place and watch a movie or something"
If it's late and your txting or talking on the phone say "Come cuddle with me".. but dont say it like your demanding it.
You can't really say any of these with a demanding tone because the girl will feel uncomfortable because she knows whats to come and will feel unsafe unless she knows you well. These 3 things work like a charm.
If your out with her say "Let's just go to my place and watch a movie or something"
If it's late and your txting or talking on the phone say "Come cuddle with me".. but dont say it like your demanding it.
You can't really say any of these with a demanding tone because the girl will feel uncomfortable because she knows whats to come and will feel unsafe unless she knows you well. These 3 things work like a charm.