I have a girl that likes me I want her to come over to my place so we can make out or what not, but I know I can't just tell her that straight up. So do u guys have any suggestions on what to tell to girls so they would be open to coming over?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How to get a girl to come over?
- Thread starter DimaDrill
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Tao of Steve
Don Juan
while you are talking to her, casually say (dont ask) 'lets go get something to eat at my place'
say it like its the most casual and natural thing to do, not like u r asking her out on a date. pre suppose she wants to do it.
say it like its the most casual and natural thing to do, not like u r asking her out on a date. pre suppose she wants to do it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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HAHAHA!Originally posted by Tao of Steve
while you are talking to her, casually say (dont ask) 'lets go get something to eat at my place'
say it like its the most casual and natural thing to do, not like u r asking her out on a date. pre suppose she wants to do it.
that's awesome..
you are such a manipulater tao of steve..
i like it ..
Austin Allegro
Master Don Juan
In the early stages most women will need some form of ASD to come over to your place. I usually find it works well to say you've thought of a film she'd really like, and you've managed to get the DVD, so why not come over and watch it. Usually works for me.
If your talkn to her on the phone say "Come over and we'll hang out here tonight"
If your out with her say "Let's just go to my place and watch a movie or something"
If it's late and your txting or talking on the phone say "Come cuddle with me".. but dont say it like your demanding it.
You can't really say any of these with a demanding tone because the girl will feel uncomfortable because she knows whats to come and will feel unsafe unless she knows you well. These 3 things work like a charm.
If your out with her say "Let's just go to my place and watch a movie or something"
If it's late and your txting or talking on the phone say "Come cuddle with me".. but dont say it like your demanding it.
You can't really say any of these with a demanding tone because the girl will feel uncomfortable because she knows whats to come and will feel unsafe unless she knows you well. These 3 things work like a charm.