I've been having a huge problem with online game ever since I was told to be brief, aloof, unresponsive, and uninterested while talking to a girl over facebook or text. This girl who I liked and who liked me back use to have good conversations online/over text back when I was acting beta, and she liked me more in person for that. Now all of our online convos are shallow and are probably decreasing her attraction for me, so now I'm stuck and confused. Does anyone know how to successfully game a girl that you like and who likes you back over facebook/text? For example, what should our conversations be about? Thanks in advance
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How to game girls over Facebook/text?
- Thread starter skop
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Borknagar
Master Don Juan
acting distant and aloof is good if you never wanna smash the chick, or if she is acting that way. if a chick is being cool, and fun to talk to be cool, and fun to talk to. don't listen to fake ass pick up gurus, I smashed a hot ex stripper who had guys drooling over her. I was fun, gave her ****, and had a good time doing so, as well as being balls deep later on. Trust me, all these fools saying facebook sucks,m and blah blah don't listen to em.
TheManOfSteel
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I'm currently messaging this girl who I met briefly at a friend's birthday party at the bar. I say go for it, you just have to be funny, type with correct grammar, then ultimately go for the number. I'm only on step 2 of 3 right now. Facebook is a girl's cocaine. Just don't drag it out too long and go for the number relatively soon, just so you're not feeding her ego w/ attention.
IKO69
Master Don Juan
You don't want to game girls over facebook and text. Keep that to a minimum. If you want to impress her you'll have to do it face to face + you'll get the practice necessary that will help you in the long run. Use facebook for general chit chat, but romance, no no