I've been having a huge problem with online game ever since I was told to be brief, aloof, unresponsive, and uninterested while talking to a girl over facebook or text. This girl who I liked and who liked me back use to have good conversations online/over text back when I was acting beta, and she liked me more in person for that. Now all of our online convos are shallow and are probably decreasing her attraction for me, so now I'm stuck and confused. Does anyone know how to successfully game a girl that you like and who likes you back over facebook/text? For example, what should our conversations be about? Thanks in advance
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How to game girls over Facebook/text?
- Thread starter skop
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Borknagar
Master Don Juan
acting distant and aloof is good if you never wanna smash the chick, or if she is acting that way. if a chick is being cool, and fun to talk to be cool, and fun to talk to. don't listen to fake ass pick up gurus, I smashed a hot ex stripper who had guys drooling over her. I was fun, gave her ****, and had a good time doing so, as well as being balls deep later on. Trust me, all these fools saying facebook sucks,m and blah blah don't listen to em.
TheManOfSteel
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I'm currently messaging this girl who I met briefly at a friend's birthday party at the bar. I say go for it, you just have to be funny, type with correct grammar, then ultimately go for the number. I'm only on step 2 of 3 right now. Facebook is a girl's cocaine. Just don't drag it out too long and go for the number relatively soon, just so you're not feeding her ego w/ attention.
IKO69
Master Don Juan
You don't want to game girls over facebook and text. Keep that to a minimum. If you want to impress her you'll have to do it face to face + you'll get the practice necessary that will help you in the long run. Use facebook for general chit chat, but romance, no no