I've been having a huge problem with online game ever since I was told to be brief, aloof, unresponsive, and uninterested while talking to a girl over facebook or text. This girl who I liked and who liked me back use to have good conversations online/over text back when I was acting beta, and she liked me more in person for that. Now all of our online convos are shallow and are probably decreasing her attraction for me, so now I'm stuck and confused. Does anyone know how to successfully game a girl that you like and who likes you back over facebook/text? For example, what should our conversations be about? Thanks in advance
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How to game girls over Facebook/text?
- Thread starter skop
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Borknagar
Master Don Juan
acting distant and aloof is good if you never wanna smash the chick, or if she is acting that way. if a chick is being cool, and fun to talk to be cool, and fun to talk to. don't listen to fake ass pick up gurus, I smashed a hot ex stripper who had guys drooling over her. I was fun, gave her ****, and had a good time doing so, as well as being balls deep later on. Trust me, all these fools saying facebook sucks,m and blah blah don't listen to em.
TheManOfSteel
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I'm currently messaging this girl who I met briefly at a friend's birthday party at the bar. I say go for it, you just have to be funny, type with correct grammar, then ultimately go for the number. I'm only on step 2 of 3 right now. Facebook is a girl's cocaine. Just don't drag it out too long and go for the number relatively soon, just so you're not feeding her ego w/ attention.
IKO69
Master Don Juan
You don't want to game girls over facebook and text. Keep that to a minimum. If you want to impress her you'll have to do it face to face + you'll get the practice necessary that will help you in the long run. Use facebook for general chit chat, but romance, no no