I've been having a huge problem with online game ever since I was told to be brief, aloof, unresponsive, and uninterested while talking to a girl over facebook or text. This girl who I liked and who liked me back use to have good conversations online/over text back when I was acting beta, and she liked me more in person for that. Now all of our online convos are shallow and are probably decreasing her attraction for me, so now I'm stuck and confused. Does anyone know how to successfully game a girl that you like and who likes you back over facebook/text? For example, what should our conversations be about? Thanks in advance
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How to game girls over Facebook/text?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Borknagar
Master Don Juan
acting distant and aloof is good if you never wanna smash the chick, or if she is acting that way. if a chick is being cool, and fun to talk to be cool, and fun to talk to. don't listen to fake ass pick up gurus, I smashed a hot ex stripper who had guys drooling over her. I was fun, gave her ****, and had a good time doing so, as well as being balls deep later on. Trust me, all these fools saying facebook sucks,m and blah blah don't listen to em.
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I'm currently messaging this girl who I met briefly at a friend's birthday party at the bar. I say go for it, you just have to be funny, type with correct grammar, then ultimately go for the number. I'm only on step 2 of 3 right now. Facebook is a girl's cocaine. Just don't drag it out too long and go for the number relatively soon, just so you're not feeding her ego w/ attention.
IKO69
Master Don Juan
You don't want to game girls over facebook and text. Keep that to a minimum. If you want to impress her you'll have to do it face to face + you'll get the practice necessary that will help you in the long run. Use facebook for general chit chat, but romance, no no