Ok, I want to ask this girl out and I have twice, the first time she said she was going back home to another country, the second time she said NO, so I accepted it as it was. Though I went to a dance and she didn't show up, but her best friend did (they never split up). I am wondering how can I figure out if she has a boyfriend or not, because she "seems" free of one (not one in school). I am on good terms with one of her close friends, but I have only been on these terms for about a month. I also go to a tiny school and I do not want to the entire school to know I like her. What should I do?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How to find out if she has a boyfriend?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Docs
Banned
Ok, I want to ask this girl out and I have twice, the first time she said she was going back home to another country, the second time she said NO, so I accepted it as it was
There's a such thing as hints. Did she leave? If she didn't, that was your first hint. Second hint, she flat out said No.
And don't lie, you haven't accepted the no if you're still after her.
In the end, move on. Unless it's been "YEARS", (and it appears this is month(s)), she won't change her mind.
There's a such thing as hints. Did she leave? If she didn't, that was your first hint. Second hint, she flat out said No.
And don't lie, you haven't accepted the no if you're still after her.
In the end, move on. Unless it's been "YEARS", (and it appears this is month(s)), she won't change her mind.
Will do, thanks man. Also, she did leave for around a week.Originally posted by Docs
Ok, I want to ask this girl out and I have twice, the first time she said she was going back home to another country, the second time she said NO, so I accepted it as it was
There's a such thing as hints. Did she leave? If she didn't, that was your first hint. Second hint, she flat out said No.
And don't lie, you haven't accepted the no if you're still after her.
In the end, move on. Unless it's been "YEARS", (and it appears this is month(s)), she won't change her mind.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
there is som truth in what DOCS is saying. especially about the yeats, not months thing. I have tried persistence before, and ended up worse then if I had nexted the girl in the first place.Originally posted by Docs
Ok, I want to ask this girl out and I have twice, the first time she said she was going back home to another country, the second time she said NO, so I accepted it as it was
There's a such thing as hints. Did she leave? If she didn't, that was your first hint. Second hint, she flat out said No.
And don't lie, you haven't accepted the no if you're still after her.
In the end, move on. Unless it's been "YEARS", (and it appears this is month(s)), she won't change her mind.
But if you wait years, then she will most likely have matured, as you will most likely, and you might have a better chance then. As it is, she doesn't give a crap about you.
You had better break off the frienship, and show her you are really after a relationship of a higher level then just friendship. You are setting up yourself for LJBF or a similar variation. And that my friend, is the male kiss of death. Not the end of the world, but pretty close to it as far as that girl is concerned.
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Yes, I can, and I did, and she has a boyfriend, I found out. No biggy on words and up words.Originally posted by Phat
cant u take no for an answere?