"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to explain to my girlfriend that I'm not getting enough a$$?

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Okay, well this thread isn't for me as you can tell I got plenty over spring break. This is for one of my good friends. He asked me how to tell his gifrliend that he wants more ass as they've only made out and they've been going out for about a month now. He feels he should be getting his d!ck touched by now atleast.

He doesn't want to sound like an a$$hole abotu though. He wants to bring it up in a nice fasion and convince her that they need to express themselves more physically.
So help me out here boys so I can help out my friend!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tell him to make moves on her and focus on her pleasure only. Not you, Then she'll return the favor, hopefully.
 
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make sure you are pleasing her...(kissing her necks.. massages) but dont be sucking up to her either,

and if your doing your part well, and she isnt.. i would bring it up, but in a polite way.. tell her your not feeling the relationship and your loosing interest because you feel that the two of you arent passionate enough..

because without sex. i believe the relationship is pointless
 
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get another freaking girl on the side!!!
 
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sexy_kuta said:
make sure you are pleasing her...(kissing her necks.. massages) but dont be sucking up to her either,

and if your doing your part well, and she isnt.. i would bring it up, but in a polite way.. tell her your not feeling the relationship and your loosing interest because you feel that the two of you arent passionate enough..

because without sex. i believe the relationship is pointless
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This guy has it bang on.

get another freaking girl on the side!!!
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Although that's the ****tiest idea I've heard, it doesn't stop it from being ****ing hilarious!:rockon:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mistermarc said:
get another freaking girl on the side!!!
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Actually, this isn't bad advice. The caveat being you're not in a serious, monogamous relationship or give two squirts of piss or a crusty booger for her.

Once she sees you as desirable to other women, oh how the tune changes . . .
 
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Mctwist4 said:
She may be thinking the same thing, but is waiting for him to make the first move. If he doesn't go for it how will he know? Just tell him to ease into it.
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Listen to the man
 
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Say this


You: Hi
her: whats up
You: Wanna fvck??
Her: Umm sure
YOu: OK cool!


All that simple, make sure her dad is not around!
 
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shydude said:
Say this


You: Hi
her: whats up
You: Wanna fvck??
Her: Umm sure
YOu: OK cool!


All that simple, make sure her dad is not around!
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Sometimes, bro, it's best not to post anything :D~
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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