"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to explain to my girlfriend that I'm not getting enough a$$?

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Okay, well this thread isn't for me as you can tell I got plenty over spring break. This is for one of my good friends. He asked me how to tell his gifrliend that he wants more ass as they've only made out and they've been going out for about a month now. He feels he should be getting his d!ck touched by now atleast.

He doesn't want to sound like an a$$hole abotu though. He wants to bring it up in a nice fasion and convince her that they need to express themselves more physically.
So help me out here boys so I can help out my friend!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tell him to make moves on her and focus on her pleasure only. Not you, Then she'll return the favor, hopefully.
 
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make sure you are pleasing her...(kissing her necks.. massages) but dont be sucking up to her either,

and if your doing your part well, and she isnt.. i would bring it up, but in a polite way.. tell her your not feeling the relationship and your loosing interest because you feel that the two of you arent passionate enough..

because without sex. i believe the relationship is pointless
 
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get another freaking girl on the side!!!
 
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sexy_kuta said:
make sure you are pleasing her...(kissing her necks.. massages) but dont be sucking up to her either,

and if your doing your part well, and she isnt.. i would bring it up, but in a polite way.. tell her your not feeling the relationship and your loosing interest because you feel that the two of you arent passionate enough..

because without sex. i believe the relationship is pointless
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This guy has it bang on.

get another freaking girl on the side!!!
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Although that's the ****tiest idea I've heard, it doesn't stop it from being ****ing hilarious!:rockon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mistermarc said:
get another freaking girl on the side!!!
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Actually, this isn't bad advice. The caveat being you're not in a serious, monogamous relationship or give two squirts of piss or a crusty booger for her.

Once she sees you as desirable to other women, oh how the tune changes . . .
 
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Mctwist4 said:
She may be thinking the same thing, but is waiting for him to make the first move. If he doesn't go for it how will he know? Just tell him to ease into it.
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Listen to the man
 
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Say this


You: Hi
her: whats up
You: Wanna fvck??
Her: Umm sure
YOu: OK cool!


All that simple, make sure her dad is not around!
 
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shydude said:
Say this


You: Hi
her: whats up
You: Wanna fvck??
Her: Umm sure
YOu: OK cool!


All that simple, make sure her dad is not around!
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Sometimes, bro, it's best not to post anything :D~
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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