I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'll be happy to prove you rightflexion_ said:
...but, I sit next to the girl I have oneitis for so wouldn't it be a waste if I just gave up and never even bothered talking to her anymore?Why does going after other girls mean you have to give up on her? stop with the hollywood, one girl for one guy mindset. Anyway, I think dating other women willl improve your chances with girl 1.BBX said:I'll be happy to prove you right
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Shezz has it spot on.Shezz said:Easy - you go sarging and collect some more girls numbers, you have fun with the new girls and you get what you want - then you desperately try to recollect what was so special about your oneitis...oh yea, nothing
Seriously man - go get some more girls!
Like i always say - There are 4billion other women on this planet...whats so special about this one? hmmm
Sarge On...