"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to detect an AFC BOYFRIEND...

neobrood

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At first, my definition of "AFC" is someone who cannot get chicks... therefore I came up with a thread like this:

90% AFC

And then some replied to that thread sayin that there are guys who chase HB who are AFC... and then DJ bible says there are AFC boyfriends and there are AFC people who are married.

Are there any other things I have to look for?

Correct me if I'm wrong but here's some things I think are signs of AFC boyfriend...

- Calls her up everyday.
- If she dont answer, he keeps on calling up. (omg... 7 times in 1 day!!!)
- Insecurity... I can tell guy is getting annoyed//angry even if Im just talkin to HB... without even touching HB.

So what else should I look for? Thanks alot...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Why would you care?! Aslong as you have higher value and/or gives her what she needs how much or not AFC a boyfriend is, is unimportant.
 

PeeGee

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Finish reading his sentence. As long as you have better value than the guy, you are in a better position anyway.
 

JT47319

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Originally posted by neobrood
... in order to have an estimate of my chances of winning the "game". The more AFC, the better chances...
You're overanalyzing. Plow straight through him like he wasn't even there.

If he's really AFC, you'll blow him out. If he's not, then watch his game and learn from him.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SOLDIERM16

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JT47319 has a good point. Ur a man, a dj. And that AFC man of hers, he aint your homie. So screw him. Its very likely that u can totally blow him out of the water, and he wont do anything but watch it happen

Ive been known to take a girl from her man a couple of times in my life. And i have made a lot of enemies from it. But the girls i obtained ended up being major experiences in my life. So if u see an opportunity, take it. Cuz u never know if the lady you win might be the lady u marry... ya know?



play on neobrood
 

So pimp its scary

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Basically, a woman will cheat if you have ALOT more 'game' (alphaness) then her current bf.

AT least in the long run...
 
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