"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to detect an AFC BOYFRIEND...

neobrood

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At first, my definition of "AFC" is someone who cannot get chicks... therefore I came up with a thread like this:

90% AFC

And then some replied to that thread sayin that there are guys who chase HB who are AFC... and then DJ bible says there are AFC boyfriends and there are AFC people who are married.

Are there any other things I have to look for?

Correct me if I'm wrong but here's some things I think are signs of AFC boyfriend...

- Calls her up everyday.
- If she dont answer, he keeps on calling up. (omg... 7 times in 1 day!!!)
- Insecurity... I can tell guy is getting annoyed//angry even if Im just talkin to HB... without even touching HB.

So what else should I look for? Thanks alot...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why would you care?! Aslong as you have higher value and/or gives her what she needs how much or not AFC a boyfriend is, is unimportant.
 

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Finish reading his sentence. As long as you have better value than the guy, you are in a better position anyway.
 

JT47319

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Originally posted by neobrood
... in order to have an estimate of my chances of winning the "game". The more AFC, the better chances...
You're overanalyzing. Plow straight through him like he wasn't even there.

If he's really AFC, you'll blow him out. If he's not, then watch his game and learn from him.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JT47319 has a good point. Ur a man, a dj. And that AFC man of hers, he aint your homie. So screw him. Its very likely that u can totally blow him out of the water, and he wont do anything but watch it happen

Ive been known to take a girl from her man a couple of times in my life. And i have made a lot of enemies from it. But the girls i obtained ended up being major experiences in my life. So if u see an opportunity, take it. Cuz u never know if the lady you win might be the lady u marry... ya know?



play on neobrood
 

So pimp its scary

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Basically, a woman will cheat if you have ALOT more 'game' (alphaness) then her current bf.

AT least in the long run...
 
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