How to defeat the Cons of Online Dating(OLD)

[Bokanovsky]

As you should. You've never seen me nor seen the women I attract.

I wasn't taking a dig at you or making a comment on your appearance. It was just a general observation about human nature. I hope you didn't take offence.

 

[patb]

Why do so many guys describe themselves as “slightly above average” and yet you never hear anyone describe himself as “slightly BELOW average”? In any event, I don’t disagree with you your point but find your comment a little amusing.

You can do a shot every time someone on here admits to getting with anything less than an "HB7" and still safely operate machinery.

 

[patb]

For some reason, when I last used this rubbish, it seemed that 90% of the woman on there were nurses.

"Not on here much - here's my Instagram"

I think the main purpose of online dating these days is for mediocre women to collect Instagram followers.

Mediocre women are the main purpose for everything these days. They're the modern era's great winners.

 

[patb]

I consider myself slightly above average in looks, I'm 5'9 and muscular. Yet when I get on these apps, I get matches and occasional lays. That's enough for me. So I don't agree with this vid. If the data is legit, the quality of messaging from the guy must not be there.

I've never in almost a decade of using these damned apps ever found a consistent winning formula for messaging. The temptation is always there to assume you're doing something "wrong," but probably it just doesn't much matter at all.

 

[jaymbrs]

I've never in almost a decade of using these damned apps ever found a consistent winning formula for messaging. The temptation is always there to assume you're doing something "wrong," but probably it just doesn't much matter at all.

My formula or strategy is to not waste time on the ones who obviously don't need to be on OLD to find a man and I spend time reading the profiles to find the ones who actually type something out where I can tell they legit want to meet someone. My main app is Bumble so when they message me, I keep the conversation light and get a date scheduled after about 5 or so messages. The "experts" here will tell you to send her messages that'll make her wet but I think that's creep type stuff. I save that for when you meet in person, vibing well and she gets comfortable with me.

 

[Plinco]

Tinder is off the table if you are 30+ and date college age

 

[patb]

Tinder is off the table if you are 30+ and date college age

Not my experience. 35+, maybe (only because I've yet to get there).

 

[Murk]

Did your gf break up with you or what

 

[jaymbrs]

Damn bro. Kaley looks cute & sexy AF

Yea she was. But as I suspected she wasn't about sh*t. I liked her back just to prove my own point that those mid twenties hotties either want followers, Only Fans subscribers or ego boosts.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Tinder : blocked WhatsApp. Finds me on signal. Block her there. Makes a second burner. Legit psycho

 

[Divorced w 3]

 

[Murk]

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Absolute psycho and you didn’t even smash her.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Absolute psycho and you didn’t even smash her.

Right. And a Brooklyn phone number for the burner. Thought the burner was a jealous friend of this girl I have gone out with that I saw eyeing us at the bar when we first met. You had been posting on dealing with aggression, the first thought my head went was after I see this girl later I am making a house call by this guy on the way home, tell him to keep out of our business. That’s how you handle business, knock on the door and deal with it straight up. But it turns out it’s just tinder girl. OLD girls are crazy. I don’t care what anyone tries to say.