"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to deal with underage foreign chick on holiday with family?

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Yeah I know that sounds dodgy but she is legal :)

I made my first CA and number close after completing bootcamp, which to be honest was quite a relief. I was eating a late lunch in the food court and she sat 2 seats across from me. To be successful with cold approaches you need to believe she is giving you signals to approach, whether she is or not. Sitting in my vicinity was reason enough for me.

I could tell she looked half decent because guys sitting opposite us kept staring in her direction :) So I finished eating and opened her, and pretty soon I found out she was from Latvia!

She was on holiday with some family and friends but got separated from them in the busy shopping centre. She was very cute and looked about my age but then I discovered she was 17.

Problem is she goes back home on the 4th of January and I'm really busy until then. Also how the hell do you take out some Russian guy's daughter to "show her around town" when she is still a minor? Any opinions on how to go about this?

Whenever I meet new women my luck is shocking....damn foreign women! :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I doubt you will be able to pull her away from her family while on vacation. Probably a no go. I cannot imagine how the parents would let this happen.

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Originally posted by dietzcoi
I doubt you will be able to pull her away from her family while on vacation. Probably a no go. I cannot imagine how the parents would let this happen.

Dietzcoi
that depends on her parents so it could go either way. If they know you are 21 then that probably makes the chances fairly slim.
 

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what to do...

I would introduce myself to the girl, then get to know the parents and become friendly with them, then after a day or 2, invite all of them to your house for a braai or wateva, then a day or 2 later invite only her to just "chill" , and then you 2 can do what u wanna do!;)

Its all about getting the trust of the parents, and getting her to "want" you, but thats the easy part, so onve u got the parents to like you, ur game is on.
 

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Originally posted by duke007
Yeah I know that sounds dodgy but she is legal :)

I made my first CA and number close after completing bootcamp, which to be honest was quite a relief. I was eating a late lunch in the food court and she sat 2 seats across from me. To be successful with cold approaches you need to believe she is giving you signals to approach, whether she is or not. Sitting in my vicinity was reason enough for me.

I could tell she looked half decent because guys sitting opposite us kept staring in her direction :) So I finished eating and opened her, and pretty soon I found out she was from Latvia!

She was on holiday with some family and friends but got separated from them in the busy shopping centre. She was very cute and looked about my age but then I discovered she was 17.

Problem is she goes back home on the 4th of January and I'm really busy until then. Also how the hell do you take out some Russian guy's daughter to "show her around town" when she is still a minor? Any opinions on how to go about this?

Whenever I meet new women my luck is shocking....damn foreign women! :)

You want some real fun..... Go to Ukraine or Russia... man the women there are just flat unreal.

Spent 2 weeks in Odessa (resort town on the coast of the black sea)

Odessa has probably the most beautiful women in the world. Ive lived in So Cal hung out on the board walk at pacific beach during a summer day... and So Cal doesnt have squat on Odessa.

Place called Arcadia right on the beach.... 20 or 30 on the beach, open air disco's. OMG the women are just flat sick. On anyones standard unless Betty is a 8 or better she doesnt go down there. Nothing like being in a club with 3 or 4 hundred smoking hot babes in tigh, short skirts.

Fun, fun, fun....

Oh, and they arent F*cked in the head like most american chicks are! Its like stepping back into the 1940's-1950's culturally.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonRob said:

Oh, and they arent F*cked in the head like most american chicks are! Its like stepping back into the 1940's-1950's culturally.
:plol.... nice generalisation u got there:p
 

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Good suggestion by aequitas but I honestly can't be bothered getting the parents to like me. She had average English and was difficult to understand sometimes so I'd imagine her parents would be ten times worse.

Plus it's Christmas/New Year...i'm busy. I should be meeting new women rather than investing time and effort in something that's not 100% guaranteed of success.
 
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