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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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How to deal with underage foreign chick on holiday with family?

duke007

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Yeah I know that sounds dodgy but she is legal :)

I made my first CA and number close after completing bootcamp, which to be honest was quite a relief. I was eating a late lunch in the food court and she sat 2 seats across from me. To be successful with cold approaches you need to believe she is giving you signals to approach, whether she is or not. Sitting in my vicinity was reason enough for me.

I could tell she looked half decent because guys sitting opposite us kept staring in her direction :) So I finished eating and opened her, and pretty soon I found out she was from Latvia!

She was on holiday with some family and friends but got separated from them in the busy shopping centre. She was very cute and looked about my age but then I discovered she was 17.

Problem is she goes back home on the 4th of January and I'm really busy until then. Also how the hell do you take out some Russian guy's daughter to "show her around town" when she is still a minor? Any opinions on how to go about this?

Whenever I meet new women my luck is shocking....damn foreign women! :)
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I doubt you will be able to pull her away from her family while on vacation. Probably a no go. I cannot imagine how the parents would let this happen.

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Originally posted by dietzcoi
I doubt you will be able to pull her away from her family while on vacation. Probably a no go. I cannot imagine how the parents would let this happen.

Dietzcoi
that depends on her parents so it could go either way. If they know you are 21 then that probably makes the chances fairly slim.
 

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what to do...

I would introduce myself to the girl, then get to know the parents and become friendly with them, then after a day or 2, invite all of them to your house for a braai or wateva, then a day or 2 later invite only her to just "chill" , and then you 2 can do what u wanna do!;)

Its all about getting the trust of the parents, and getting her to "want" you, but thats the easy part, so onve u got the parents to like you, ur game is on.
 

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Originally posted by duke007
Yeah I know that sounds dodgy but she is legal :)

I made my first CA and number close after completing bootcamp, which to be honest was quite a relief. I was eating a late lunch in the food court and she sat 2 seats across from me. To be successful with cold approaches you need to believe she is giving you signals to approach, whether she is or not. Sitting in my vicinity was reason enough for me.

I could tell she looked half decent because guys sitting opposite us kept staring in her direction :) So I finished eating and opened her, and pretty soon I found out she was from Latvia!

She was on holiday with some family and friends but got separated from them in the busy shopping centre. She was very cute and looked about my age but then I discovered she was 17.

Problem is she goes back home on the 4th of January and I'm really busy until then. Also how the hell do you take out some Russian guy's daughter to "show her around town" when she is still a minor? Any opinions on how to go about this?

Whenever I meet new women my luck is shocking....damn foreign women! :)

You want some real fun..... Go to Ukraine or Russia... man the women there are just flat unreal.

Spent 2 weeks in Odessa (resort town on the coast of the black sea)

Odessa has probably the most beautiful women in the world. Ive lived in So Cal hung out on the board walk at pacific beach during a summer day... and So Cal doesnt have squat on Odessa.

Place called Arcadia right on the beach.... 20 or 30 on the beach, open air disco's. OMG the women are just flat sick. On anyones standard unless Betty is a 8 or better she doesnt go down there. Nothing like being in a club with 3 or 4 hundred smoking hot babes in tigh, short skirts.

Fun, fun, fun....

Oh, and they arent F*cked in the head like most american chicks are! Its like stepping back into the 1940's-1950's culturally.
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonRob said:

Oh, and they arent F*cked in the head like most american chicks are! Its like stepping back into the 1940's-1950's culturally.
:plol.... nice generalisation u got there:p
 

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Good suggestion by aequitas but I honestly can't be bothered getting the parents to like me. She had average English and was difficult to understand sometimes so I'd imagine her parents would be ten times worse.

Plus it's Christmas/New Year...i'm busy. I should be meeting new women rather than investing time and effort in something that's not 100% guaranteed of success.
 
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