"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to deal with underage foreign chick on holiday with family?

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Yeah I know that sounds dodgy but she is legal :)

I made my first CA and number close after completing bootcamp, which to be honest was quite a relief. I was eating a late lunch in the food court and she sat 2 seats across from me. To be successful with cold approaches you need to believe she is giving you signals to approach, whether she is or not. Sitting in my vicinity was reason enough for me.

I could tell she looked half decent because guys sitting opposite us kept staring in her direction :) So I finished eating and opened her, and pretty soon I found out she was from Latvia!

She was on holiday with some family and friends but got separated from them in the busy shopping centre. She was very cute and looked about my age but then I discovered she was 17.

Problem is she goes back home on the 4th of January and I'm really busy until then. Also how the hell do you take out some Russian guy's daughter to "show her around town" when she is still a minor? Any opinions on how to go about this?

Whenever I meet new women my luck is shocking....damn foreign women! :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I doubt you will be able to pull her away from her family while on vacation. Probably a no go. I cannot imagine how the parents would let this happen.

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Originally posted by dietzcoi
I doubt you will be able to pull her away from her family while on vacation. Probably a no go. I cannot imagine how the parents would let this happen.

Dietzcoi
that depends on her parents so it could go either way. If they know you are 21 then that probably makes the chances fairly slim.
 

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what to do...

I would introduce myself to the girl, then get to know the parents and become friendly with them, then after a day or 2, invite all of them to your house for a braai or wateva, then a day or 2 later invite only her to just "chill" , and then you 2 can do what u wanna do!;)

Its all about getting the trust of the parents, and getting her to "want" you, but thats the easy part, so onve u got the parents to like you, ur game is on.
 

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Originally posted by duke007
Yeah I know that sounds dodgy but she is legal :)

I made my first CA and number close after completing bootcamp, which to be honest was quite a relief. I was eating a late lunch in the food court and she sat 2 seats across from me. To be successful with cold approaches you need to believe she is giving you signals to approach, whether she is or not. Sitting in my vicinity was reason enough for me.

I could tell she looked half decent because guys sitting opposite us kept staring in her direction :) So I finished eating and opened her, and pretty soon I found out she was from Latvia!

She was on holiday with some family and friends but got separated from them in the busy shopping centre. She was very cute and looked about my age but then I discovered she was 17.

Problem is she goes back home on the 4th of January and I'm really busy until then. Also how the hell do you take out some Russian guy's daughter to "show her around town" when she is still a minor? Any opinions on how to go about this?

Whenever I meet new women my luck is shocking....damn foreign women! :)

You want some real fun..... Go to Ukraine or Russia... man the women there are just flat unreal.

Spent 2 weeks in Odessa (resort town on the coast of the black sea)

Odessa has probably the most beautiful women in the world. Ive lived in So Cal hung out on the board walk at pacific beach during a summer day... and So Cal doesnt have squat on Odessa.

Place called Arcadia right on the beach.... 20 or 30 on the beach, open air disco's. OMG the women are just flat sick. On anyones standard unless Betty is a 8 or better she doesnt go down there. Nothing like being in a club with 3 or 4 hundred smoking hot babes in tigh, short skirts.

Fun, fun, fun....

Oh, and they arent F*cked in the head like most american chicks are! Its like stepping back into the 1940's-1950's culturally.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DonRob said:

Oh, and they arent F*cked in the head like most american chicks are! Its like stepping back into the 1940's-1950's culturally.
:plol.... nice generalisation u got there:p
 

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Good suggestion by aequitas but I honestly can't be bothered getting the parents to like me. She had average English and was difficult to understand sometimes so I'd imagine her parents would be ten times worse.

Plus it's Christmas/New Year...i'm busy. I should be meeting new women rather than investing time and effort in something that's not 100% guaranteed of success.
 
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