"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to deal with the shy and/or clueless

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I've been trying to get with this one girl and i've gotten to the hugging stage of sh*t, but I've tried to get a little more intimate but she isn't getting the clue. She seems to be really shy, I'll walk past her or to her in between classes, lunch, etc... and she'll make eye contact, look away and make eye contact again about 5 times before smiling and stuff. She laughs about a lot of the sh*t I say and although I don't talk to her much during the week, she always calls or texts me on the weekend around friday and saturday wanting to know what Im up to and she'll wanna tag along or something.

Overall, I've never dealt with a shy girl like this and would like some advice in opening her up to me.

My friend told her about me and him having a conversation yesterday and how I mentioned that I thought she was kinda cute and she seemed to be baffled or something from what he told me and like he couldn't get make any sense of what she responded with and so he quit talking to her...but yeah, I saw her afterwards and she seemed all smily and big pupiled he he...yeah, but in point, I need some advice with dealing with this. thanxs
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wow thats pretty easy. Have any classes with her? Just talk to her about common things and make her feel special (compliments, jokes). And SMILE a lot. Shy girls usually need a confidence lift like a lot of shy guys need it. A smile will make them feel good.
 
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yeah, i always make her smile. I always make her laugh and sh*t.

I probably will end up going out with her simply because. I just need to build anticipation or something to spark sh*t in the direction I want.
 
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