"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to deal with the shy and/or clueless

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I've been trying to get with this one girl and i've gotten to the hugging stage of sh*t, but I've tried to get a little more intimate but she isn't getting the clue. She seems to be really shy, I'll walk past her or to her in between classes, lunch, etc... and she'll make eye contact, look away and make eye contact again about 5 times before smiling and stuff. She laughs about a lot of the sh*t I say and although I don't talk to her much during the week, she always calls or texts me on the weekend around friday and saturday wanting to know what Im up to and she'll wanna tag along or something.

Overall, I've never dealt with a shy girl like this and would like some advice in opening her up to me.

My friend told her about me and him having a conversation yesterday and how I mentioned that I thought she was kinda cute and she seemed to be baffled or something from what he told me and like he couldn't get make any sense of what she responded with and so he quit talking to her...but yeah, I saw her afterwards and she seemed all smily and big pupiled he he...yeah, but in point, I need some advice with dealing with this. thanxs
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wow thats pretty easy. Have any classes with her? Just talk to her about common things and make her feel special (compliments, jokes). And SMILE a lot. Shy girls usually need a confidence lift like a lot of shy guys need it. A smile will make them feel good.
 
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yeah, i always make her smile. I always make her laugh and sh*t.

I probably will end up going out with her simply because. I just need to build anticipation or something to spark sh*t in the direction I want.
 
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