"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dannyegg4575

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Never give up your Self Respect and Dignity for sex
lol...

i don't know why but this made me laugh...

I totally understand how much you guys feel! i'm feeling a lot better today... don't know why... perhaps, i am healing a lot faster now vs the last two times I turned back into an AFC... but will continue to self improve... onwards and upwards as my basketball coach would say...

it's all mind over matter... I don't mind and she don't matter.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Danny

thats good to hear, man.

Good news.

So go back and re read my reply, and start implementing these steps into a Self Improvement program.

You are to RE COVER your TRUE SELF now.
It's your turn.


Inner game and self realization/self perfection/self improvement are my areas of expertise!
No seriously..

It is.


So get started and feel free to ask me any questions or concerns you may have.
Your TIME is NOW, Danny.
It is.

Now you know how bad it feels...

....let those feelings INSPIRE you to NEVER go BACK THERE AGAIN.
 

dannyegg4575

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As guys, I know it goes without being said, but I really do appreciate all the help Inceptor! And everyone here, from the bottom of my heart.

I'm not going to heal over night, once in awhile, sh*ts' going to creep in... Will do my best to not let it happen to me again.

I have deep inner game... have to find dr. paul.. can't find it anywhere..

onwards and upwards...
 

dannyegg4575

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You know, i was thinking the same thing i think... that's why i was laughing...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What if she "changed" her mind and wants to go back??
 

dannyegg4575

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doesn't matter if she changed her mind. It's over. If you're horny, then just hang in there for the sex and discard. Otherwise, don't even bother.
 
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