"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

How to deal with the early stage of rejection?

dannyegg4575

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2007
Messages
311
Reaction score
11
Never give up your Self Respect and Dignity for sex
lol...

i don't know why but this made me laugh...

I totally understand how much you guys feel! i'm feeling a lot better today... don't know why... perhaps, i am healing a lot faster now vs the last two times I turned back into an AFC... but will continue to self improve... onwards and upwards as my basketball coach would say...

it's all mind over matter... I don't mind and she don't matter.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Interceptor

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 25, 2007
Messages
2,609
Reaction score
135
Location
Florida
Danny

thats good to hear, man.

Good news.

So go back and re read my reply, and start implementing these steps into a Self Improvement program.

You are to RE COVER your TRUE SELF now.
It's your turn.


Inner game and self realization/self perfection/self improvement are my areas of expertise!
No seriously..

It is.


So get started and feel free to ask me any questions or concerns you may have.
Your TIME is NOW, Danny.
It is.

Now you know how bad it feels...

....let those feelings INSPIRE you to NEVER go BACK THERE AGAIN.
 

dannyegg4575

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2007
Messages
311
Reaction score
11
As guys, I know it goes without being said, but I really do appreciate all the help Inceptor! And everyone here, from the bottom of my heart.

I'm not going to heal over night, once in awhile, sh*ts' going to creep in... Will do my best to not let it happen to me again.

I have deep inner game... have to find dr. paul.. can't find it anywhere..

onwards and upwards...
 

dannyegg4575

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2007
Messages
311
Reaction score
11
You know, i was thinking the same thing i think... that's why i was laughing...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Blue Phoenix

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 23, 2004
Messages
1,335
Reaction score
27
What if she "changed" her mind and wants to go back??
 

dannyegg4575

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2007
Messages
311
Reaction score
11
doesn't matter if she changed her mind. It's over. If you're horny, then just hang in there for the sex and discard. Otherwise, don't even bother.
 
Top