"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dannyegg4575

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Never give up your Self Respect and Dignity for sex
lol...

i don't know why but this made me laugh...

I totally understand how much you guys feel! i'm feeling a lot better today... don't know why... perhaps, i am healing a lot faster now vs the last two times I turned back into an AFC... but will continue to self improve... onwards and upwards as my basketball coach would say...

it's all mind over matter... I don't mind and she don't matter.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Interceptor

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Danny

thats good to hear, man.

Good news.

So go back and re read my reply, and start implementing these steps into a Self Improvement program.

You are to RE COVER your TRUE SELF now.
It's your turn.


Inner game and self realization/self perfection/self improvement are my areas of expertise!
No seriously..

It is.


So get started and feel free to ask me any questions or concerns you may have.
Your TIME is NOW, Danny.
It is.

Now you know how bad it feels...

....let those feelings INSPIRE you to NEVER go BACK THERE AGAIN.
 

dannyegg4575

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As guys, I know it goes without being said, but I really do appreciate all the help Inceptor! And everyone here, from the bottom of my heart.

I'm not going to heal over night, once in awhile, sh*ts' going to creep in... Will do my best to not let it happen to me again.

I have deep inner game... have to find dr. paul.. can't find it anywhere..

onwards and upwards...
 

dannyegg4575

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You know, i was thinking the same thing i think... that's why i was laughing...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What if she "changed" her mind and wants to go back??
 

dannyegg4575

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doesn't matter if she changed her mind. It's over. If you're horny, then just hang in there for the sex and discard. Otherwise, don't even bother.
 
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