"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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dannyegg4575

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Never give up your Self Respect and Dignity for sex
lol...

i don't know why but this made me laugh...

I totally understand how much you guys feel! i'm feeling a lot better today... don't know why... perhaps, i am healing a lot faster now vs the last two times I turned back into an AFC... but will continue to self improve... onwards and upwards as my basketball coach would say...

it's all mind over matter... I don't mind and she don't matter.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Danny

thats good to hear, man.

Good news.

So go back and re read my reply, and start implementing these steps into a Self Improvement program.

You are to RE COVER your TRUE SELF now.
It's your turn.


Inner game and self realization/self perfection/self improvement are my areas of expertise!
No seriously..

It is.


So get started and feel free to ask me any questions or concerns you may have.
Your TIME is NOW, Danny.
It is.

Now you know how bad it feels...

....let those feelings INSPIRE you to NEVER go BACK THERE AGAIN.
 

dannyegg4575

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As guys, I know it goes without being said, but I really do appreciate all the help Inceptor! And everyone here, from the bottom of my heart.

I'm not going to heal over night, once in awhile, sh*ts' going to creep in... Will do my best to not let it happen to me again.

I have deep inner game... have to find dr. paul.. can't find it anywhere..

onwards and upwards...
 

dannyegg4575

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You know, i was thinking the same thing i think... that's why i was laughing...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What if she "changed" her mind and wants to go back??
 

dannyegg4575

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doesn't matter if she changed her mind. It's over. If you're horny, then just hang in there for the sex and discard. Otherwise, don't even bother.
 
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