"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to deal with someone who cannot be avoided?

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I don't mean like in a workplace environment. More like, somebody that you'll run into at places once in a while, or you end up having to hang out with because you have mutual friends.

I'm not gonna dig up the last post I made about this one, but I've decided that this girl's trying to play games with me, again, and I've had enough. She invited me over to her apartment last weekend, and never followed up when I asked her what time she had in mind, and she's acting like a total dipsh1t online. It's clear she hasn't changed a bit during the time that I was gone.

Plus, I don't think I'm even attracted to her anymore. She's turning into a butterball.

Anyhow, I know she thinks I've still got a hot-nut for her, so next time I see her she's going to try teasing me, and flirting with me. Like, I'll be minding my own business, and she'll hold my hand, or grab my arm and put it around her. Or she'll start saying annoying sh1t like "I really want to fvck you, but..." (yes, literally), even though I wasn't even interested, and I always lose my cool.

So how do I behave around her? What do I say to her remarks? Should I pull away when she starts getting physical? Won't that just make it worse?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Be cordial while keeping withing your own personal frame.
 

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I have no problem playing nice around her, but could you give me some examples of what to do when she starts coming on to me. I don't want this girl thinking I'm still into her, but I don't need her thinking I'm a homo or something either.
 
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