"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to deal with someone who cannot be avoided?

Brules Rules

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I don't mean like in a workplace environment. More like, somebody that you'll run into at places once in a while, or you end up having to hang out with because you have mutual friends.

I'm not gonna dig up the last post I made about this one, but I've decided that this girl's trying to play games with me, again, and I've had enough. She invited me over to her apartment last weekend, and never followed up when I asked her what time she had in mind, and she's acting like a total dipsh1t online. It's clear she hasn't changed a bit during the time that I was gone.

Plus, I don't think I'm even attracted to her anymore. She's turning into a butterball.

Anyhow, I know she thinks I've still got a hot-nut for her, so next time I see her she's going to try teasing me, and flirting with me. Like, I'll be minding my own business, and she'll hold my hand, or grab my arm and put it around her. Or she'll start saying annoying sh1t like "I really want to fvck you, but..." (yes, literally), even though I wasn't even interested, and I always lose my cool.

So how do I behave around her? What do I say to her remarks? Should I pull away when she starts getting physical? Won't that just make it worse?
 

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I have no problem playing nice around her, but could you give me some examples of what to do when she starts coming on to me. I don't want this girl thinking I'm still into her, but I don't need her thinking I'm a homo or something either.
 
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