"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to deal with insecurityin a relationship?

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well I dont know how to deal with my insecurity when it comes to my gf. If i dont make her laugh ill feel as though shes losing interest or im not funny anymore. or if someone else makes her laugth ill get jealous that it wasnt me. I think it s because the infatuation stage is over and were comfortable with eachother so i dont know how to deal with it?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dmatter said:
well I dont know how to deal with my insecurity when it comes to my gf. If i dont make her laugh ill feel as though shes losing interest or im not funny anymore. or if someone else makes her laugth ill get jealous that it wasnt me. I think it s because the infatuation stage is over and were comfortable with eachother so i dont know how to deal with it?
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Just don't give a fyck! GET WORKING WITH YOUR HOBBIES AND if the bytch doesn't provide "WAHT A REAL MAN NEEDS" dump her!
 
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There is no set key. You need to just have trust in your gf's feelings for you.

The root of jealousy in these situations is usually the ideal that your partner will lose interest in you or leave you for someone else (in this case, because someone else makes her laugh) - it just isn't the case.


Good Luck!
 
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Just don't give a fyck! GET WORKING WITH YOUR HOBBIES AND if the bytch doesn't provide "WAHT A REAL MAN NEEDS" dump her!
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couldn't have said it better myself.

a real man has certain needs. her role as a woman is to satisfy your needs while you take care of hers. that's the whole point of a relationship. giving each other what you need so you can fulfil each other's desires. working together as a team toward building something.

also you need to maybe start dating other women. your insecurity won't go away until you know with 100% certainty that if she walks out of the door, you could replace her with a better woman.
 
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