"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to deal with insecurityin a relationship?

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well I dont know how to deal with my insecurity when it comes to my gf. If i dont make her laugh ill feel as though shes losing interest or im not funny anymore. or if someone else makes her laugth ill get jealous that it wasnt me. I think it s because the infatuation stage is over and were comfortable with eachother so i dont know how to deal with it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dmatter said:
well I dont know how to deal with my insecurity when it comes to my gf. If i dont make her laugh ill feel as though shes losing interest or im not funny anymore. or if someone else makes her laugth ill get jealous that it wasnt me. I think it s because the infatuation stage is over and were comfortable with eachother so i dont know how to deal with it?
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Just don't give a fyck! GET WORKING WITH YOUR HOBBIES AND if the bytch doesn't provide "WAHT A REAL MAN NEEDS" dump her!
 
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There is no set key. You need to just have trust in your gf's feelings for you.

The root of jealousy in these situations is usually the ideal that your partner will lose interest in you or leave you for someone else (in this case, because someone else makes her laugh) - it just isn't the case.


Good Luck!
 
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Just don't give a fyck! GET WORKING WITH YOUR HOBBIES AND if the bytch doesn't provide "WAHT A REAL MAN NEEDS" dump her!
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couldn't have said it better myself.

a real man has certain needs. her role as a woman is to satisfy your needs while you take care of hers. that's the whole point of a relationship. giving each other what you need so you can fulfil each other's desires. working together as a team toward building something.

also you need to maybe start dating other women. your insecurity won't go away until you know with 100% certainty that if she walks out of the door, you could replace her with a better woman.
 
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