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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to deal with insecurityin a relationship?

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well I dont know how to deal with my insecurity when it comes to my gf. If i dont make her laugh ill feel as though shes losing interest or im not funny anymore. or if someone else makes her laugth ill get jealous that it wasnt me. I think it s because the infatuation stage is over and were comfortable with eachother so i dont know how to deal with it?
 

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dmatter said:
well I dont know how to deal with my insecurity when it comes to my gf. If i dont make her laugh ill feel as though shes losing interest or im not funny anymore. or if someone else makes her laugth ill get jealous that it wasnt me. I think it s because the infatuation stage is over and were comfortable with eachother so i dont know how to deal with it?
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Just don't give a fyck! GET WORKING WITH YOUR HOBBIES AND if the bytch doesn't provide "WAHT A REAL MAN NEEDS" dump her!
 
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There is no set key. You need to just have trust in your gf's feelings for you.

The root of jealousy in these situations is usually the ideal that your partner will lose interest in you or leave you for someone else (in this case, because someone else makes her laugh) - it just isn't the case.


Good Luck!
 
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Just don't give a fyck! GET WORKING WITH YOUR HOBBIES AND if the bytch doesn't provide "WAHT A REAL MAN NEEDS" dump her!
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couldn't have said it better myself.

a real man has certain needs. her role as a woman is to satisfy your needs while you take care of hers. that's the whole point of a relationship. giving each other what you need so you can fulfil each other's desires. working together as a team toward building something.

also you need to maybe start dating other women. your insecurity won't go away until you know with 100% certainty that if she walks out of the door, you could replace her with a better woman.
 
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