“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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how to deal with flakes

sunnykhatri736

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Guys can anyone tell me how to deal with flakes ?
I got 5 dates this week and 2 of them flaked
and we almost planned our date and the place where we were about to have sex and then she flaked.
Im new to dating stuff
so tell me how to deal with the flakes ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Unless she explicitly offers to reschedule the only response needed before you delete their number is:

Fvck Off.
 

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if she can't be bothered to show up for the dates there's nothing you can do but say fvck her and move on.

if she contacts you she gets a second chance, after a second chance if she flakes forget her forever

however if her flakes are far apart with lots of success inbetween you give extra chances.(flaking twice in 2 dates is horrible, flaking twice in 10 dates isn't so bad)
 

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The Same Way You Deal with a Chick That's HIV Positive

sunnykhatri736 said:
so tell me how to deal with the flakes ?
You don't.
 

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Ditch that b**ch and move on! You know you can do better!

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maximus Rex said:
You don't.
I would say ^this.

Women ARE going to flake, some will, some won't. You HAVE to understand this in order to be a 'DJ'. Don't take it personal or get jaded. It's part of dating. You can learn from it though, then move on to the next one. And, if there isn't a next one, go find a next one.
 
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