Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how to deal with flakes

sunnykhatri736

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Guys can anyone tell me how to deal with flakes ?
I got 5 dates this week and 2 of them flaked
and we almost planned our date and the place where we were about to have sex and then she flaked.
Im new to dating stuff
so tell me how to deal with the flakes ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Unless she explicitly offers to reschedule the only response needed before you delete their number is:

Fvck Off.
 

devilkingx2

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if she can't be bothered to show up for the dates there's nothing you can do but say fvck her and move on.

if she contacts you she gets a second chance, after a second chance if she flakes forget her forever

however if her flakes are far apart with lots of success inbetween you give extra chances.(flaking twice in 2 dates is horrible, flaking twice in 10 dates isn't so bad)
 

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The Same Way You Deal with a Chick That's HIV Positive

sunnykhatri736 said:
so tell me how to deal with the flakes ?
You don't.
 

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Ditch that b**ch and move on! You know you can do better!

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WanderingMan

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Maximus Rex said:
You don't.
I would say ^this.

Women ARE going to flake, some will, some won't. You HAVE to understand this in order to be a 'DJ'. Don't take it personal or get jaded. It's part of dating. You can learn from it though, then move on to the next one. And, if there isn't a next one, go find a next one.
 
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