“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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how to deal with flakes

sunnykhatri736

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Guys can anyone tell me how to deal with flakes ?
I got 5 dates this week and 2 of them flaked
and we almost planned our date and the place where we were about to have sex and then she flaked.
Im new to dating stuff
so tell me how to deal with the flakes ?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Unless she explicitly offers to reschedule the only response needed before you delete their number is:

Fvck Off.
 

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if she can't be bothered to show up for the dates there's nothing you can do but say fvck her and move on.

if she contacts you she gets a second chance, after a second chance if she flakes forget her forever

however if her flakes are far apart with lots of success inbetween you give extra chances.(flaking twice in 2 dates is horrible, flaking twice in 10 dates isn't so bad)
 

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The Same Way You Deal with a Chick That's HIV Positive

sunnykhatri736 said:
so tell me how to deal with the flakes ?
You don't.
 

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Ditch that b**ch and move on! You know you can do better!

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Maximus Rex said:
You don't.
I would say ^this.

Women ARE going to flake, some will, some won't. You HAVE to understand this in order to be a 'DJ'. Don't take it personal or get jaded. It's part of dating. You can learn from it though, then move on to the next one. And, if there isn't a next one, go find a next one.
 
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