damn, im indecisive whether to next her or not.. but one thing she is flaking and it really drives me crazy..damn it makes me a women hater...I called her couple of days ago and she did not pick up and texted her no reply again.. I said fcvk it..let her go hell... last night she called me at 2 am i did not reply and than texted she is saying like she was busy... not a reasonable excuse..big lie..and than again why she is calling back? .and i know if i take her out, i would bone her obviously... but whatever i hate this kind of girls... my question is how do you deal this kind of flakes? what would u do ? move on or stay stick to her?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How to deal with flakes?
- Thread starter Trapper
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You don't deal with them. You leave them alone to their own devices. If you don't you'll end up feeling the way that you do now and it could effect your game.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
wait no longer than 15 mins. after that, leave. I usually wait for them to contact me, and let them know that it is unacceptable to waste my time like that. give them another chance.
I give each woman 2 chances.
1 flake-out is a fluke, 2 is a pattern.
after that, dump her.
I give each woman 2 chances.
1 flake-out is a fluke, 2 is a pattern.
after that, dump her.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
I think you have to decide whether or not you enjoy when girls do this. If you hate girls that flake and find it annoying, then simply find girls that don't do it and actually enjoy going out with girls. Women hating sucks man, not all girls are bad....find them!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.