damn, im indecisive whether to next her or not.. but one thing she is flaking and it really drives me crazy..damn it makes me a women hater...I called her couple of days ago and she did not pick up and texted her no reply again.. I said fcvk it..let her go hell... last night she called me at 2 am i did not reply and than texted she is saying like she was busy... not a reasonable excuse..big lie..and than again why she is calling back? .and i know if i take her out, i would bone her obviously... but whatever i hate this kind of girls... my question is how do you deal this kind of flakes? what would u do ? move on or stay stick to her?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How to deal with flakes?
- Thread starter Trapper
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You don't deal with them. You leave them alone to their own devices. If you don't you'll end up feeling the way that you do now and it could effect your game.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
wait no longer than 15 mins. after that, leave. I usually wait for them to contact me, and let them know that it is unacceptable to waste my time like that. give them another chance.
I give each woman 2 chances.
1 flake-out is a fluke, 2 is a pattern.
after that, dump her.
I give each woman 2 chances.
1 flake-out is a fluke, 2 is a pattern.
after that, dump her.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
I think you have to decide whether or not you enjoy when girls do this. If you hate girls that flake and find it annoying, then simply find girls that don't do it and actually enjoy going out with girls. Women hating sucks man, not all girls are bad....find them!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.