damn, im indecisive whether to next her or not.. but one thing she is flaking and it really drives me crazy..damn it makes me a women hater...I called her couple of days ago and she did not pick up and texted her no reply again.. I said fcvk it..let her go hell... last night she called me at 2 am i did not reply and than texted she is saying like she was busy... not a reasonable excuse..big lie..and than again why she is calling back? .and i know if i take her out, i would bone her obviously... but whatever i hate this kind of girls... my question is how do you deal this kind of flakes? what would u do ? move on or stay stick to her?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How to deal with flakes?
- Thread starter Trapper
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You don't deal with them. You leave them alone to their own devices. If you don't you'll end up feeling the way that you do now and it could effect your game.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
wait no longer than 15 mins. after that, leave. I usually wait for them to contact me, and let them know that it is unacceptable to waste my time like that. give them another chance.
I give each woman 2 chances.
1 flake-out is a fluke, 2 is a pattern.
after that, dump her.
I give each woman 2 chances.
1 flake-out is a fluke, 2 is a pattern.
after that, dump her.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
I think you have to decide whether or not you enjoy when girls do this. If you hate girls that flake and find it annoying, then simply find girls that don't do it and actually enjoy going out with girls. Women hating sucks man, not all girls are bad....find them!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.