damn, im indecisive whether to next her or not.. but one thing she is flaking and it really drives me crazy..damn it makes me a women hater...I called her couple of days ago and she did not pick up and texted her no reply again.. I said fcvk it..let her go hell... last night she called me at 2 am i did not reply and than texted she is saying like she was busy... not a reasonable excuse..big lie..and than again why she is calling back? .and i know if i take her out, i would bone her obviously... but whatever i hate this kind of girls... my question is how do you deal this kind of flakes? what would u do ? move on or stay stick to her?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How to deal with flakes?
- Thread starter Trapper
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You don't deal with them. You leave them alone to their own devices. If you don't you'll end up feeling the way that you do now and it could effect your game.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
wait no longer than 15 mins. after that, leave. I usually wait for them to contact me, and let them know that it is unacceptable to waste my time like that. give them another chance.
I give each woman 2 chances.
1 flake-out is a fluke, 2 is a pattern.
after that, dump her.
I give each woman 2 chances.
1 flake-out is a fluke, 2 is a pattern.
after that, dump her.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
I think you have to decide whether or not you enjoy when girls do this. If you hate girls that flake and find it annoying, then simply find girls that don't do it and actually enjoy going out with girls. Women hating sucks man, not all girls are bad....find them!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.