i have been seeing something for quite sometime. i am attracting girls no problem but im not being able to take it to the next level. im that interesting funny guy to them, but that connection is not formed. how do you build that quickly? any ideas?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How to build chemistry with a woman!
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- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You build the chemistry by not trying to build the chemistry. You let everything flow naturally. Also, you don't become to available. You trying to keep up the intrigue for her by not always being there when she wants you to be.
Anytime you try to force it, it fails. You've obviously been seeing this or you wouldn't have come here.
Good luck!
Anytime you try to force it, it fails. You've obviously been seeing this or you wouldn't have come here.
Good luck!
You said you're already the interesting funny guy, so building chemistry and taking it to the next level requires kino.
The object of the game is to get as close as you can to the opposite sex, and the closest you can ever get is having sex, which starts by touching.
So start using sensual touch or risk just being the interesting funny guy friend.
The object of the game is to get as close as you can to the opposite sex, and the closest you can ever get is having sex, which starts by touching.
So start using sensual touch or risk just being the interesting funny guy friend.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Sometimes “that interesting funny guy” is simply entertaining and little more. To get to the nest level, to go further requires making a connection on a deeper level. You’ve got to connect with what she thinks and not every girl thinks the same things.
potato, thats what i talking of. connection? a big word and i think it is the gateway to the sexual part. being interesting is what gets a girl curious about u but connecting with her is so important, how do u form that emotional connection?