i have been seeing something for quite sometime. i am attracting girls no problem but im not being able to take it to the next level. im that interesting funny guy to them, but that connection is not formed. how do you build that quickly? any ideas?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How to build chemistry with a woman!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You build the chemistry by not trying to build the chemistry. You let everything flow naturally. Also, you don't become to available. You trying to keep up the intrigue for her by not always being there when she wants you to be.
Anytime you try to force it, it fails. You've obviously been seeing this or you wouldn't have come here.
Good luck!
Anytime you try to force it, it fails. You've obviously been seeing this or you wouldn't have come here.
Good luck!
You said you're already the interesting funny guy, so building chemistry and taking it to the next level requires kino.
The object of the game is to get as close as you can to the opposite sex, and the closest you can ever get is having sex, which starts by touching.
So start using sensual touch or risk just being the interesting funny guy friend.
The object of the game is to get as close as you can to the opposite sex, and the closest you can ever get is having sex, which starts by touching.
So start using sensual touch or risk just being the interesting funny guy friend.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sometimes “that interesting funny guy” is simply entertaining and little more. To get to the nest level, to go further requires making a connection on a deeper level. You’ve got to connect with what she thinks and not every girl thinks the same things.
potato, thats what i talking of. connection? a big word and i think it is the gateway to the sexual part. being interesting is what gets a girl curious about u but connecting with her is so important, how do u form that emotional connection?