i have been seeing something for quite sometime. i am attracting girls no problem but im not being able to take it to the next level. im that interesting funny guy to them, but that connection is not formed. how do you build that quickly? any ideas?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How to build chemistry with a woman!
- Thread starter schttrj
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You build the chemistry by not trying to build the chemistry. You let everything flow naturally. Also, you don't become to available. You trying to keep up the intrigue for her by not always being there when she wants you to be.
Anytime you try to force it, it fails. You've obviously been seeing this or you wouldn't have come here.
Good luck!
Anytime you try to force it, it fails. You've obviously been seeing this or you wouldn't have come here.
Good luck!
You said you're already the interesting funny guy, so building chemistry and taking it to the next level requires kino.
The object of the game is to get as close as you can to the opposite sex, and the closest you can ever get is having sex, which starts by touching.
So start using sensual touch or risk just being the interesting funny guy friend.
The object of the game is to get as close as you can to the opposite sex, and the closest you can ever get is having sex, which starts by touching.
So start using sensual touch or risk just being the interesting funny guy friend.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sometimes “that interesting funny guy” is simply entertaining and little more. To get to the nest level, to go further requires making a connection on a deeper level. You’ve got to connect with what she thinks and not every girl thinks the same things.
potato, thats what i talking of. connection? a big word and i think it is the gateway to the sexual part. being interesting is what gets a girl curious about u but connecting with her is so important, how do u form that emotional connection?