i have been seeing something for quite sometime. i am attracting girls no problem but im not being able to take it to the next level. im that interesting funny guy to them, but that connection is not formed. how do you build that quickly? any ideas?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
How to build chemistry with a woman!
- Thread starter schttrj
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You build the chemistry by not trying to build the chemistry. You let everything flow naturally. Also, you don't become to available. You trying to keep up the intrigue for her by not always being there when she wants you to be.
Anytime you try to force it, it fails. You've obviously been seeing this or you wouldn't have come here.
Good luck!
Anytime you try to force it, it fails. You've obviously been seeing this or you wouldn't have come here.
Good luck!
You said you're already the interesting funny guy, so building chemistry and taking it to the next level requires kino.
The object of the game is to get as close as you can to the opposite sex, and the closest you can ever get is having sex, which starts by touching.
So start using sensual touch or risk just being the interesting funny guy friend.
The object of the game is to get as close as you can to the opposite sex, and the closest you can ever get is having sex, which starts by touching.
So start using sensual touch or risk just being the interesting funny guy friend.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sometimes “that interesting funny guy” is simply entertaining and little more. To get to the nest level, to go further requires making a connection on a deeper level. You’ve got to connect with what she thinks and not every girl thinks the same things.
potato, thats what i talking of. connection? a big word and i think it is the gateway to the sexual part. being interesting is what gets a girl curious about u but connecting with her is so important, how do u form that emotional connection?