"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how to bring a girl home?

MrMarbles

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Let me explain. I started dating a girl a couple weeks ago. We live in NYC, which means when we go out, we arrange to meet some place and take a train there. Then when we are done we just go separate ways, again taking the subway to our respective parts of the city. Since I do not drop her off at her place, there isn't that "goodbye moment" in the car where we kiss and she offers for me to go "upstairs". So the entire date is sort of anticlimactic (no pun intended). So what do I do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nicelife

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Ask her to come round to yours to watch a movie or some **** for your next date, then flop it out
 

saturos

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For your next date, try to arrange for a place very close to your house/residence.
After your date, ask her if she wants to come over, or tell her you want to show her something, etc.
Maybe its raining as well. That would be unfortunate, then she would have another reason to go over to your place for a little.
 

Garand

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Make sure you have a reason for her coming over, even if it's just "Do you want a coffee?" - the girl needs an alibi.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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